THE JEWEL IN THE CROWN



The Americans, British and the citizens of other countries had to accept abortion laws because they came from legislators or the court system. Having lived in the USA for 23 years, I’ve had many conversations where people are unhappy with being a society that aborts many of its young. But they’re whispered, because if you are prolife, you may be labelled ‘fundamentalist’ or ‘anti-woman’.

Planned Parenthood’s lawyer Julie Kay dubbed Ireland ‘the Jewel in the Crown of the global prolife movement’. I’m so proud of Ireland! This is an honour from the organization whose bread and butter is abortion and who until discovered by a series of undercover videos, were doing a brisk trade in harvesting human organs for sale. How odd that before the termination, it was ‘just a clump of cells’ but after, they could retrieve usable organs. It’s just one of the mental acrobatics that have to be done to accept the unacceptable in society.

It’s difficult to write this, but I must. Ireland is facing a big challenge, and many ex-pats including myself have a plea from the heart – please don’t allow Ireland to become like the USA or the UK. I worked in Health Care for 40 years, in 4 countries, and have had several opportunities to see legal termination of pregnancies up close. I have also to my eternal regret, assisted in the legal ending of a pregnancy, and therefore, a human life. I haven’t said this to many people up to now, but I must speak now, no matter what you think of me.

This is hard to write but I will find it extremely difficult to forgive myself if the issue is left to the mercy of legislators and I haven’t told Irish voters – my own family and friends - about my experiences with the abortion culture. My conscience won’t allow me to let this pass without trying to open peoples’ eyes.

I’m familiar with the proposed legislation if Repeal passes. It’s clearly abortion on request not just for 12 weeks but until 24. Dr. Peter Boylan has this to say about providing abortion over 12 weeks, which has to be approved by an obstetrician and a medical practitioner (specialty unspecified):

I don’t really have a problem about them saying “serious risk” because if the woman regards it as serious, then it is. It should be the woman’s assessment of the risk that counts.’
Like the UK and many States here in the US.

I have great respect for a doctor who has spent his career looking after thousands of mothers and babies, but like many other doctors in this day and age, he has dehumanised one of his patients when that little one is not wanted. He has lost the plot.

Yes, some women order abortion pills online and take them unsupervised. This is problematic and the UK has the same problem. But the abortion pill destroys a young life and stops a heart beating which is programmed to beat for 80-90 years. It’s extremely destructive, like heroin or cocaine but nobody is calling for those to be ‘regulated’.

There have been assurances that terminations of pregnancy after 24 weeks will never intentionally result in a dead child. A case taken to the Supreme Court, or legislation, will easily change this from delivery of a liveborn to a stillborn, if that’s what the parents want. With the 8th gone, all protection of the unborn baby is gone too. In the UK, cleft palate has been enough to cause parents to opt for late-term abortions.[i]

Katherine Zappone, the Minister for Children who is hazy about when Life begins (at conception, say the scientists) is on record as saying that abortion must be available so that we can become a ‘Republic of Equals.’ Does this mean that women are not equal to men because we can get pregnant? I emailed her to ask her what she meant, and I never got a response.

One could say the reverse, that men are not equal to women because they can’t get pregnant.
I think what she might be saying is that in order to be equal in the workplace, women can’t be taking months and maybe years off to have babies, and even perhaps stay at home with their small children, and go onto what the Americans call ‘the Mommy Track.’ Women will then fall behind and men, who don’t have uteruses - people who don’t have uteruses that can grow babies, can forge ahead and become executives and soon be running the company, while the mothers who have come back to work when their children are up a bit, are taking orders from them instead of competing with them. Inequality at the Top.

Is that what Ms. Zappone means? She never explained so I have to draw my own conclusions. But if so, I want to say one thing – not every person wants to climb the ladder. Men and women. It’s just assumed that everybody does. Many workers don’t want to be in management. I was never interested, for one, and I worked with many people who were, like me, happy enough to go home in the evening not worried about staffing and budgets and if the Night Shift spend too much time chatting.
And all mothers say that being a mother is the most important job in their lives.

I suppose this might be the opportune time to tell you I’m childless, and I would have loved to have been an ‘incubator’ or a ‘vessel’. I have my own feelings during this Debate.


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